This large butt plug is not meant for a first experience. Before using it, warm up with smaller toys, such as our graduated anal beads, until your body is fully relaxed. Apply a very generous amount of water-based lubricant to the plug and to your body, and reapply as often as needed. Insert slowly, breathing deeply, and never force: the widest part should pass only when your muscles naturally allow it. If you want more control over size, the inflatable butt plug lets you adjust it progressively. Stop at any sign of discomfort.