Start by applying a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the toy and to your body. If you are new to dildos, choose the Small size and take your time: begin with slow, shallow movements, then explore depth and angle as you relax. To use the suction function, press the base firmly onto a clean, smooth and dry surface. This suction dildo is just as pleasant held in the hand, which makes it a lovely toy to share with a partner. For partnered play with free hands, you may also like our strap-on dildo with harness.